Some of you may have noticed that I fell off the wagon last week. I’ve been pretty good about posting a blog post every week. What most of you don’t know is that there are times when I post that I’m not even at home. For instance, WW37 – Spring Plantings back on May 23 was actually written early, and was a scheduled post that went up automatically using the scheduled publishing feature that WordPress offers. I feel that it’s important that I keep to the scheduled posts. It keeps me accountable for something, and helps keep me in touch with you guys (assuming there’s still anyone reading these things).
But at the same time, I’m also pretty security conscious. Between my self-defense training, and my prepper lifestyle, I’ve picked up a few words of wisdom when it comes to home security. One of the biggies is “don’t advertise to the world when your house will be empty”. That means you don’t post in your blog, on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or any of the hundreds of other social media outlets when you’re going to be on vacation.
Common sense should tell you this from a home security perspective, but I understand all too well the desire to post pictures of the friends and family you’re visiting as soon as you have them. I was so tempted to post pictures on Facebook of the wonderful times we were having with my daughter and granddaughter, friends and extended family in Utah. Instead, I posted a list of plants I’m going to try in the garden this year.
Come on. You already know the answer. You don’t want to let the bad guys know when you or your property will be vulnerable. I could have posted something like this on Facebook:
“Just landed in SLC. Looks like a winter storm beat us by just a few hours. This is crazy! But we’re looking forward to a fun week with friends and family. Hope you’re all jealous!”
And there would have been the little picture like this one, showing the snowy landscape to prove I wasn’t just making this stuff up. Knowing me, I probably would have added a cute little smiley face or two.
But a post like that would have immediately told any would-be burglars that our home was going to empty for several days. And anyone with any savvy could have found out where we live via some of the lovely little tools that the internet makes available for anyone who is interested in such things, and MBH & I could have easily returned from SLC to find our home emptied of any valuables.
Think I’m exaggerating? According to a 2011 article in Digital Trends, “Nearly 4 Out Of 5 Burglars Use Social Networks To Find Empty Homes“. International Business Times published an article in 2013 entitled “How Burglars Use Facebook To Target Vacationing Homeowners“. And just last year, Kim Komando published “4 Ways Burglars Use Social Media To Target You“.
It gets worse. Ever hear of Jenn Gibbons? She was the victim of a highly publicized incident in 2012. Jenn was attempting to row around Lake Michigan to raise money for a breast cancer victims recovery group called “Recovery on Water”. Jenn posted daily updates of her journey on Facebook and on her personal blog, and five weeks into her journey she was docked near a lighthouse for the night when a man boarded her boat demanding that she take off her shorts. “Jenn, I know who you are,” he said before he sexually assaulted her, “and I knew where to find you.”
So think about that before you post when you’ll be away from home, or worse, when you’ll be alone hiking, rowing, biking, running, or participating in any activity that will keep you away from other people. In other words, don’t let the bad guys know when you’re going to be vulnerable. If you live in the boonies, don’t let the world know when you’re going to be gone for any length of time if you’re leaving behind a vulnerable spouse or children.
And my self-defense brain is yelling at me to tell you “Better yet, don’t be vulnerable at all!” Learn to defend yourself. Make sure your spouse and children know how to defend themselves. I made sure all of my kids had a good martial arts education. I feel sorry for anyone who takes them as easy marks. They aren’t invulnerable. None of us are. But they long ago lost the victim mentality, and they know how to defend themselves.
All right. Enough on that subject. Let’s see what else has been going on.
Personal Goings On –
Last week, I was out of town again. (See how I segued into that?) My mother has had some pretty severe knee issues (as in no cartilage, bone on bone, doctor said he didn’t know how she was able to walk at all, issues), and finally was able to get the worst knee replaced last week. I went into Houston to be with her during the process.
To my friends in Houston that I didn’t contact while I was there, I owe you all an apology. Jim, Angela, Kevin, Sham, and everyone else… I’m sorry. I didn’t even make time to see any family other than those who came to see Mom. Just about every hour was either spent at the hospital, or resting up to go back to the hospital. The one exception was the day before she went int and I got to have lunch with my mom, son, daughter-in-law, and newest granddaughter.
The knee replacement went amazingly well. Hours after the replacement, they were already bending the knee. The day after that, they were exercising the leg, and had her up and walking. Not for very far, and definitely not for very long, but she was up and walking.
The day I left to come back home, she was able to make it up a flight of stairs with some help from my brother-in-law and me, and she was able to walk (slowly) around her room with minimal trouble. She started her physical therapy the day after I left, and is doing really well now, a week later.
Love you, Mom.
Chucklers is really moving again. Now that I’ve decided on how to restructure the book, I’ve been working on it almost as two different projects. The idea has been to restructure the novel from a mixed up, chronological timeline, to two separate, individual stories that tell the story of what happened in the main locations. This requires that I fill in more characters and details for the two (now separate) stories, which is in turn making for a much longer book than I had anticipated. That means there is still the chance that what had been intended as the first book in a trilogy, may actually become the first two books of a quadrilogy.
Maybe. At this point, I honestly don’t know how it’s all going to play out. All I know is that the WIP is now over 127k words and still growing. And I’m still working on the first half of it. If the same thing happens when I get to the second half, I may actually end up splitting it into two individual volumes. For now though, I’m writing again. I’ll just have to see where the story takes me.
Propolis tincture (left) and comfrey infused oil (right)
By now, you all know I’m a bit of a prepper. What most of you don’t know is that I’m a member of a local prepper group. It’s a mutual education group, where we teach each other about things like bee keeping, making cheese, making soap, primitive fire-starting skills… things like that. Well I’ve done a lot of research on herbal medicines while writing Year 12, and have put some of what I’ve learned into practice. So for our next project night, I volunteered to share some of what I’ve learned and done with regards to herbal healing.
Thinking about what I would do for the project night, I started gathering information for handouts, and figured I would show the group how to make a simple salve. I made a comfrey & tea tree oil salve a few weeks ago, and it turned out to be pretty good. But in doing so, I learned another lesson. If you’re planning to give your product out for others to use, make absolutely certain that they don’t have any allergies to the ingredients you’re using.
No, I didn’t send anyone into anaphylactic shock. But the friend I gave some to has several allergies, so I made sure to tell her the ingredients, and ask if she was allergic to any of them. As it turns out, she had a mild allergy to tea tree oil. She makes her own soap, had added some to a batch of soap she’d made, and broke out in hives. She told me that she honestly thought that she’d probably added too much of the oil to her mix, so still wanted to try the salve, but assured me that she would do a simple wrist test first. As it turns out, there was no reaction, and she has used the salve with no problems. But it reiterated the importance of checking first.
So far, I’ve never heard of anyone being allergic to comfrey, though I’m sure it happens. But for our upcoming project night, I’m making some bee propolis tincture (a two-week process), and have already made some comfrey infused oil. In addition, I’ll be taking my almond oil, tea tree oil, bees-wax, vitamin E, and a few other ingredients so we can make a custom salve based on input from the group. Since propolis is a bee product, and I know there are plenty of people who are allergic to bees and bee by products, there is the distinct possibility that I won’t be able to us it in the salve. But I wanted to let the group see it, and understand the difference between tinctures, teas, salves, poultices, etc., and how they can be used together.
So I’ll take the various ingredients, let everyone see them, and we’ll make a salve that everyone can take home and use. It will be a chance to show the group how important it is to make sure you don’t use the wrong product on people, as well as show them just how easy it is to make a salve based on your needs at the moment.
And that’s enough blogging for now. Time to get back to writing. So stay safe everyone. I’ll see you next time.